I have been away for a little while again, but there has been a lot happening I’ve moved from my home for 10 years that being Cambridgeshire in various places to north wales which I absolutely love and feel like I am settling in to starting a new job which is fun and interesting and I’m learning lots about a business that I never thought I would enjoy. The winter has been quiet but its been great getting back out to the MBS fairs and meeting lots of motivating people, speaking of which (excuse the pun) I recently met a woman who, after having a stroke that rendered her without speech has taught herself to speak again which when she told me her story, completely blew me away. I know I have said it before but TBP blows my mind everyday in one way or another or rather I should say since I have been using TBP I seem to blow my own mind not in an arrogant way but more like a humbling experience because it is being filtered in from somewhere else and because I am connected to the universe or whatever you like to call it I am able to tap in to knowledge and insights I’m not sure if that makes sense because there are no words to explain it. (I was thinking out loud here but left it in just because I think I needed to put it in words.) I guess what I am really wanting to say is that I am absolutely sure that when we are in balance with who we are then we begin to really focus on what type of experience we want to have? Things like do we want to start a new life somewhere else or what type of business do we want to have, but it all starts with how do I want to feel? I think that when we start to go more out of balance we start looking outside of ourselves and going in to our internal checklists and then we start comparing ourselves to others, if you use the balance procedure then The art of knowing is the card you would use to balance your own uniqueness and your gifts and talents. I think that sometimes we forget that we each come with our own skills and talents that only we can use. To truly get there however, sometimes it is necessary to explore different pathways and to observers this can look like you might be taking the long way around and not following your path, but I have to say that my view on this is that its not the case Steve Jobs once said “you can only connect the dots looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will connect in your future.” This has stuck with me since I first heard it in so many ways, even more so now that I am balancing all of the time. Because I trust my self to know that the reason I choose to do something is not from a point of fear or lack or negative, at the moment I have a job in a hotel and before I perhaps would have taken the job but from a point of ‘I need this job’ and ended up no longer enjoying it very soon afterwards but coming from a point of I want this job because there are lots of interesting local people that drink in the bar and that means that making connections in a new community is so much faster and easier because people are in a relaxed environment and then guess what! I can introduce what I actually do and wow has that has been amazing. That’s just one example, but my point is that there is no right or wrong path you can possibly take to your goal or dreams, because you will inevitably gain valuable experiences during that transformational period that you needed to evolve into the next person you are going to be because if your anything like me then change always comes in small and big ways and moving forward and evolving through experience I feel is always positive.
There is no right or wrong in the study of enlightenment, only experience – Frederick lenz